It's true. We're not off to a really great start. I have NONE of that time I was supposed to have since all the kids are at school. The good news is that I'm not feeling as lonely as I was worried about. The bad news is that time was supposed to be for cleaning the house, preparing dinner, exercising. So none of that stuff got done yesterday.
The kids didn't get to bed until after 9:00 and they reminded me a lot when I woke them up for scripture reading this morning. At least we're getting THAT done! Practicing was iffy yesterday. I woke up a little earlier this morning determined to get more done! Everything was going OK until I woke the kids up...just kidding...kind of. We read scriptures, I made whole wheat pancakes (I'm taking credit for every possible tiny little thing right now). Eva had to take her violin to school for the first time today and wanted to put some cool things in her locker and wanted me to go with her. Given yesterday's great results I was feeling a little rushed and wondering really why couldn't she just do it herself but I went because it seemed important to her. We got there really early, dropped off her violin (I counted my blessings AGAIN for the free violin because it means that since we have had to upgrade we have two violins and she can leave one at school and we don't have to worry about the back and forth stuff), and I watched while she set up her locker. A few times I noticed I was the ONLY parent and was feeling rushed and wishing I could get out of there but then I realized I was the ONLY parent....she invited me to school as a 7th grader and actually that's really cool and it means she likes me and wants me around and that's very special for a 12 almost 13 year old girl. Then I felt a little teary and after a couple of minutes I said, "Eva I feel pretty special because I think I'm the only parent to be invited to middle school." I was going to say thank you but before I could get it out she looked around and said, "Um, bye Mom." I didn't hug her in the hall but I imagined it in my head.
THEN I had to go to the store because we were almost out of bread and I had no time to make any yesterday. There was a really long line (5 customers in front of me) and the person at the front of it had trouble and there was only one checker. When I finally got home, Ivy and Nathan were in the yard with their backpacks like they were ready for school--an hour early! But they weren't really ready because Ivy needed to comb her hair and Nathan had put a shirt on that had syrup all over it from the other day (don't even ask my why...I didn't even ask about the pants because I really didn't want to know--they looked all right...I figure that's why I buy them pants that all look the same). I told Nathan to change and Ivy to comb her hair and then went to work on some PTA stuff I needed to take care of when we heard emergency vehicles outside. Concerned, but determined to stay focused, I asked the kids to see if they could see anything happening from the front door. They could--there was a policeman and two ambulances at a neighbor's house so I ran over there to make sure everything was fine. They were (I mean as well as a person could be who had to have ambulances over, I guess) and I left my phone number and talked to the mother of the household (she was at work in Salt Lake) and then came home to take the kids to school....late, of course. But only by a few minutes really.
The really great part about it was that when they got out of the car at school I noticed that
Ivy didn't comb her hair...
Nathan DID change his shirt...
Into the one he wore yesterday.
So I guess tomorrow, Day 3, will be the day I get it all together!
1 comment:
I like how you actually went to the school with Eva, and that she wanted you there. And I can confess that I let my 1st grader wear the same pants and shirt two days in a row because it wasn't the battle I was willing to fight.
Great post. Getting back to school is so hectic.
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